It's a numbers game The more you do it, the better you will get. Just like in golf – the more balls you hit, the more often one might land in the fairway. You need to control your swing. Ask yourself: how do you swing? Practice makes perfect and repetition is your best friend. And no, we are not talking about when you beat it.

 

Go for what you like, not what's there Okay, sometimes it seems we contradict advice, but not really if you read closely. When flirting with a group of girls hit on all of them and see who bites. However, all chicks not being equal - always shoot for the hottest one. You are bound to have a better experience when you actually succeed in scoring – God forbid that should actually happen.

 

Impress all the senses There are five senses; six if you count your Johnson. Anyways, pay attention to how you look, smell, sound, touch, and, er, taste. That is, if you think she might be licking the bag by the end of the evening, make sure you took it through the 'ball washer' thoroughly. Appeal to all five senses and you will be appealing to her.

 

Don't be dependent on her Worst thing you can do is start to need your woman.  Remember, first just be interested in hooking up with her often.  Let things develop naturally, and then wait and see where it goes.  Don't just have a preconceived notion of how you finally meet the "one" and that will end all of life's problems.

 

Learn to say "no" - at least to some things Don't do everything she asks.  If she needs your help taking her car to the garage you just recommended, tell her you're busy that day. Don't start running freaking errands for her (especially, if she hasn't put out yet). That isn't sexy and you just became her "friend."