Don't ask too many questions This isn't an interview. Don't make it one. Ask simple shit here and there to get an awkward silence out of the way and leave it at that. Generally, have a conversation and don't interview them like you are suspicious of them. She is probably lying as much as you are anyway.

 

Don't denigrate to act cool Don't say stuff like "I have a thing for short girls," which you think might make you sound confident but instead makes you sound like a jerk. Always compliment – that's cool. To put her down is foolish and a surefire method to getting blown off.

 

	Don't expect miracles Have you looked at yourself Dude? If you look like a melted candle with your shirt off – don't think you are leaving with the pin-up girl in town for a three day model shoot! (That is, unless you've got a yacht.)
You should know the SingleGirls.com salary-weight rule – Every 10lbs you are overweight can be offset with an additional 30 grand in salary. 30 lbs overweight – then you better make 90K more than the average guy. Get the picture? We hope you do if you can't get in shape.

 

Don't go in circles - take the opportunity If you are about to close the deal – don't start over. Don't start with simply another dumb story about your time in Europe or how many times you like going to the beach to watch Seagulls do it. You are only spinning your tires. If you think she will hook-up with you – go into hook-up mode and close the deal before some other dude does.

 

Play hard to get Hey, it works both ways. Don't be such an easy piece of meat for her – even if that's the truth. Act like you got stuff going on, that you might have to leave at any moment. This will drive up her interest in you, if she liked you initially. If she gives you walking papers, walk. There will be more.

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