It's not how you say it, it is what you say Women, especially single hot ones, are more concerned with how you carry the words then how you say them. They want to see confidence and a cool demeanor.

You can almost talk about nothing and she will be just as fine about it as if you were spilling the beans about the Nobel Peace Price you just won. Enunciate and take time to listen, do this and you could be talking about watching paint dry and you'll still be doing fine. Also try to make sure you don't stutter. Meanwhile, the actual Nobel Peace Prize dude, who is stuttering and sweating like he is on trail, isn't getting the one prize that trumps all: a hot single girl.

 

Be Cool Being cool is a state of mind and it affects every other part of your hook up game. Being cool is not being worried about whether this one hot single girl likes your or not. It is your cache, your swagger, your attitude - she will be attracted to your cool "who gives a shit" attitude.
Remember: you don't play the dating game, you play your game. When she gets a sense of this, you will have her locked up because you were cool about it.

 

Be put together If you have a look, go with it.  Just be consistent.  If you are the tucked in shirt kind of guy, women like that.  Just don't have your tail un-tucked after coming out of the john.  Women don't like that.  If the bum look works for you, then roll with hit.  It is all about having a unique style that tells her here is someone who is his own man.

 

Be approachable Don't look like a total hard ass if you want hot and sexy women to come up and talk to you.  Women like a man that has a sensitive side.  Learn how to bring it out. Even the hard to get ones will be put off by your cocky attitude.  Leave it at the door.

 

Be yourself Don't let her talk you into shit you would never do in a million years like go bungee jumping the next morning or dumping hot oil on your ass. If this is not you, then don't suddenly make it be. We aren't saying don't try new things, but don't do stuff you hate just because you think you are going to impress her. You don't have to be like her to get her. The best hot single girls know this is true.

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