Be comfortable Dress comfortable so that you can be comfortable because if you are not, then you may eventually make her uncomfortable - also a very bad thing. For example: don't wear anything overly tight or constraining on your boys. If you don't feel comfortable, your game will be off and this will show with the single girls. You want to be relaxed, then they can be, too.

 

Don't jump through hoops Okay, sometimes you will have to show her you are serious and do something for her. Maybe she wants to test you out a little by asking you if you can come with her to a charity event next week or meet the parents at a summer camp. Whatever it is, ask yourself if she is making you jump through all sorts of hoops to hook up. You shouldn't have to jump through anything if you got the right game. So, be wary of tests. They are best not taken.

 

	Don't make it an interview Another bad development when you are hitting on a hot single girl is when it all starts to sound like an interview. Your questions should never start trying to answer preexisting interests like if she is a football fan or whatever.
Likewise, don't sit there any answer a litany of dumb ass yes or no questions about whether you were in prison, like to go to church or enjoy porno for that matter. Conversation needs to happen and flow naturally. You will know if she likes football when you pump your fist at the bar's TV when your team scores just as she does the same.

 

Have a sense of humor Don't have a stick up your ass when it comes to talking with the girl you plan to pick up.  Learn to laugh at stuff, even yourself.  Self-deprecating humor shows confidence.  Don't take yourself too seriously.

 

Don't jump for a number Getting a number is not having your ticket punched to getting laid. Many times it is a bum number, you get the answering machine, maybe some illegal alien answers the phone and you have no idea what they are saying, or she simply brushes you off.  A number is only a possibility – treat it that way.  When the clothes come off – then it's time to jump.

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