Get out of Dodge early When you are trying to pick up single chicks, don't hang around forever waiting for them to come around. If you don't get a good vibe in the initial exchange, leave. The rule here is if you look around and can't spot the idiot – you are the idiot. Get out of there if you want to get out like a man.

 

Flirt with as many as possible If you see a group, flirt with the group. Don't pick anyone in particular out even if you think one is a bit hotter than the most (to point – don't go for the what the wingman should be going for). You want to create competition amongst them. Divide and conquer baby. Then later, spread and conquer.

 

Learn from the pros You want to be a pro? Then start acting like one even if you are not. Look toward people that really know how to pick up hot chicks (say for instance, The Dude, who writes regularly for SingleGirls.com). Take his advice and put it to work. You imitate before you actually assimilate. You are a rookie before you turn pro. You will know when you have arrived.

 

Take your time Even though you don't have all night, act like you do.  Be mindful of when the bar is going to close but never act rushed.  It is all about pacing.  Picking up a chick is like a well timed speech.  Get to the point and don't be stuck in the middle of your stupid life story when last call is announced.

 

Have a date idea planned Here is a novel idea that most boneheads seem to overlook (that is if she agrees to go out with you): have an idea about where you want to take her – a concert, comedy show, a festival.  Never ask someone out without knowing where exactly you will take them.

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