Harold from Oak Ridge, TN wants to know… How to press her button... The G-spot Just about all arousal for women starts with the clitoris. However, once a woman is fully aroused via whatever method you choose for clitoral stimulation, you can either add or change up your method to maximize her stimulation. Every women responds to stimulation differently, too. The key is to listen to her as she grunts, huffs, swears, hits you, coos – you will know when you get closer to the orgasmic big bang that can only be triggered by depressing the G-spot properly. Take good notes on how you got her there.

 

Derek from Atlanta, GA wants to know… What is the best sexual position? The short answer is the best position for sex is the one that is comfortable for both of you and gets you both to where you need to be.
This can be different for every couple as everybody’s physiology is different. So, in the initial stages of your sexual romance, some trial and error may be in order. However, the great thing is it will be the best research you will ever do in your life.

 

Mark from Galveston, TX wants to know… What is the sexiest body part? The mind is the sexiest tool you have. You can use it to get her worked up about anything. Never forget that simple fact. You need to learn to unleash the amazing female libido by helping her discover her true sexual self, which all originates in the brain. You want to be her fantasy man, right? The fantasy is in the mind. So, to channel a little Matrix within you and bring out that alter ego.

 

Paul from Ashville, NC wants to know… How to get her to touch herself Okay, no rocket science is needed here – simply ask her to do it. However, if you think the bold honest way is not the way go, take a more indirect approach: perhaps she will watch a steamy movie with you? While watching ask her about what she thinks about that sort of thing if it occurs.
The bottom line is you will never know unless you ask.

 

	Bob from Winston-Salem, NC wants to know… How to show you're still interested after sex Immediately after sex, simply hold your women and look her in the eyes. The idea is let her continue to be the object of your affection.
Just because you dropped one isn't an excuse to drop everything and go to sleep. Whatever you do, don’t blunder off for a beer now that your load has been spent. Think of an airplane coming down for a landing. Yes, you both arrived at your destination, now gradually come down together and stay focused on her.

 

George from Del Rio, TX wants to know… How to lay the pipe in a car Okay, so you pull over and fancy yourself a teenager in love again.

Having sex in a car is probably easier today than it was for those that grew up with the fuel efficient models of the late 80s. Now with vehicles like Hummers, you can practically have an orgy in the back seat. One good method is having her put her hands on the dashboard as she pushes back onto your gear shift. Remember to hold her hips. Then, there is the back seat, which may require more dexterity depending on your car. Oh, remember to make sure the car is parked and in gear before you, eh, park your own gear.

 

	Carlos from Alamogordo, NM wants to know… How to have rough sex First, you need to establish that she is down for it. You can ask, but you want to be a little more subtle about this topic. The idea is to listen to clues – like her saying "more, deeper, harder, f—ck me silly."
When you start hearing that sort of thing, maybe you lightly smack her in the caboose and see what it does for her. The whole idea is let her call the shots on roughing it.

 

Jason from Pueblo, CO wants to know… How to get blown more often This question probably says loud and clear that Jason is simply not getting his gal to blow him like she once did. Jason may be confounded as to why the BJ seems to be a thing of the past. Don't despair Jason, you are not alone. You may be the victim of the "blow and switch." That is she blew you to win you over and now that you are hers, the blow jobs have become like any other jobs, they went away.

Where? We don't know - over to India we guess. However, there are some things you can do to encourage their return. Make sure you are well showered, smell nice and are neatly presented. Then, sit with her naked and see if you can convince here to take a trip down BJ memory lane. Be ready to return the oral favor, too. Women complain that far too often men will not go down, yet they expect their ladies to.