Clarice in Wheeling, WV wants to know… How to develop a sexy voice? So your voice is like somebody stepped on a cat's tail and it is turning him off. Well, it is possible to work on your voice. Remind yourself to take a deep breath and to speak from a low, relaxed place in your throat – not in the high place we speak from when we're nervous.
If you really want to hide your annoying voice – put something in your mouth. We'll let you decide what that should be...we're sure he won't find your voice annoying then.

 

Sheila from Grand Junction, CO wants to know… What men really want in bed Picture your most perverted fantasy and multiply it by ten and you probably are in the right ball park. However, to find out what really turns him on and mean it, look for subtle clues during sex and foreplay.
If you are kissing him all over and his hand starts to push your head down, well, it should be pretty obvious what turns him on – his hand feeling your hair (yeah, right). You know what he wants. Do you want to give it to him is another question entirely.

 

	Jana from Thermopolis, WY wants to know… Do I have to be a slut to turn him on? No. If you are at the point that sex is a very real possibility don't even think in terms of that question. After all, if he put in the time to be with you and you are a nice good wholesome girl, he already likes that about you. That being said, most men don't want an angel in the bedroom either.
Think more along the lines of being a little mischievous with him – like you could possibly be corrupted and you will be on track. And if you want to be a slut – well, more power to you.

 

Erika from Erie, wants to learn... How to keep the sex frisky Wrestle with him.  The idea here is to strip down to your undergarments, run at him and tackle him.  Start to tickle your man all over, and we mean all over especially near his manhood.  Your tackle will take him by surprise.  What will really surprise him is when you start removing his clothes challenging him to a carnal and playful wrestling match.  This should be done with all the gusto of a pillow fight.  As you wrestle, be sure to address all of his sensitive areas and be sure that you get pinned in the end.  The object is to loose this wrestling match.

 

Paula from Evanston wants to know... How to build the sexual excitement Flash your panties at him.  You want the sex to really heat up?  Next time you are wearing a skirt and find yourself in a car with him or some other place, flash him those new undies you bought at Victoria's Secret.  This will drive him wild as he drives the car and should drive him right to your bedroom when you get back to your place.  Or, things may heat up right in the car. Just make sure the car is parked before he parks in you.

 

Chelsea from Boston wants to know... How to give a lap dance The best advice here is put on a song that both of you enjoy - upbeat and sultry if possible but whatever works, works.  Make him sit in a chair and then start to remove your clothes.  When you are properly down to your lingerie (or naked if you prefer), it is time to move in closer and get the show going.  Tease him with your body for most of the song by putting your boobs in his face and grazing his manhood with your hands, mouth, legs and even feet.  Do a little pantomime of your oral skills and then take a seat, while cooing his name to the music, grinding your butt into his lap.  If he lasts beyond the song, he is a eunuch.