At the spa Girls at the spa are relaxing so you don't want to invade their space. The idea is to make eye contact and then talk to them outside the spa or in the lobby, when they are back into the hassles of the real world. She will automatically know you both have something in common. Take advantage of it, man.

 

Running up credit cards Girls out on a shopping ritual are usually going through some kind of change in their life. Is she buying all new outfits? Well, maybe she just broke up with her boyfriend. Find out...just don't let her use your cards. You don't need that at this point, or ever, for that matter.

 

Celebrate an accomplishment Look for overly exuberant girls at the work place. If they are single, they are prime material for snatching up at this point. They are at an emotional high and if you introduce yourself then, you will be forever associated with that feeling. So don't waste anytime. Go for it.

 

Watching kids Doing the nanny is not solely the domain of porno films. A lot of women will make an extra buck on the side by watching kids. If you are a single father, don't discount the potential of a nanny. Plus, if you score, how pornographic is that?

 

In the suite next door Does your company share an office building with other firms? If so, take a survey of the hot ones that work in close proximity. You just might be able to have an office romance without the drawbacks of working for the same company.